RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE BIRDS

                                            RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE BIRDS

There are no perfect relationships ;It’s how you accept the imperfections that make it perfect .Nothing is perfect. Life is messy. Relationships are complex. Outcomes are uncertain. People are irrational. Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go.  Relationship is an art. The dream that two people create is more difficult to master than one. 

 A real relationship is like a river; the deeper it gets the less noise it makes.   You don't develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.  Looking back and wondering if it could have worked eventually hurts more than trying and failing.RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE BIRDS.They need an open sky to flourish and we often make mistake by caging these birds and here the problem starts.

 Birds are not meant to be caged, that's all. Their feathers are too bright, their songs too sweet and wild. So you let them go, or when you open the cage to feed them they somehow fly out past you if caged. And the part of you that knows it was wrong to imprison them in the first place rejoices, but still, the place where you live is that much more drab and empty for their departure.

 Since we as human beings developed the ability to think rationally and analyze our surroundings, we have been curious about why things are the way that they are. If we look at religions and philosophies over the span of human history, there has been one question that has been either asked directly or indirectly , in all cultures and that is WHAT IS PURPOSE OF LIFE?

People come to wonder about the purpose of life for a number of different reasons. Maybe they’re just inherently curious, or they’ve recently experienced a family tragedy, maybe they’re questioning their faith, or they’re going through a depression and are looking for a renewed sense of meaning. To find the purpose of life you’re going to need to do some digging. Because there are so many answers to this question, it’s important that you find the one that resonates with you

. One of the most obvious conclusions we may come to is the need to be happy. Popular psychology will often promote happiness as the highest virtue we often don’t know exactly what happiness is, and it can therefore, be hard to find. To know how to find happiness, and whether or not it is an adequate purpose to your life, you need to first discover what happiness means to you. Once you have a crystal clear image of whatever that is, you can start to go after it and see if it gives you the sense of purpose that answers the big question

.Another can be that purpose of life is to love others.  Love seems to be a healing agent to human suffering and something that connects us across time and culture. When we are able to love others unconditionally, we see our environment naturally become a more stable and fruitful place, and the lens through which we see the world is more positive and productive.

Another way we can find purpose in life is to have a rich and fulfilling array of experiences. As far as we can determine, there is only one life, at least in this particular form. Meaning is therefore created when we celebrate the gift of our human experience through our five senses. Travel, entertainment, love, relationships, good food and novel experiences are all ways in which we may do that. Though not everyone has equal resources to do so, they can still seize opportunities within their own lives if they want to truly live life with no regrets.Relationships thus provide us happiness,love and experiences.

 A relationship consists of two people that have emotional, physical and sexual needs. Both partners try to have some or most of their needs met within their romantic relationship. The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. Both persons are also willing to do what they can to make their partner happy.

                       Relationships are like birds, they need somebody to care and feed them too.You let it go it will fly away, but if you loved it right it will come back to you.The key is to allow that person to grow without defining who or what you think they should be.

 As long   as there is that connection it’s truly genuine and will last a lifetime.

They had a wing to fly, if you realize your bird was unhappy. The best way you can do is set them free. If they are meant for you they will definitely come back. 

 Sometimes, taking care of them is not just enough.